Hey there, I’m Aimee.
Purity culture survivor, deconstructed chaplain, and sex coach. I’m here to help you reclaim pleasure and intimacy—whatever that looks like for you.
My approach
Purity culture robbed us of a relationship with ourselves; my passion is helping you reconnect with your body and pleasure through a holistic approach that combines trauma-informed, talk-based coaching with experiential practices. As a sex coach, I’m here to guide you toward amazing sex and intimacy. As a chaplain, I’m able to support you in your deconstruction journey. Healing is possible and it feels amazing.
Why work with a sex coach?
Working with a sex coach is an opportunity to have a safe and nonjudgmental space explore and learn to communicate your desires, fears, and boundaries. You get personalized guidance, addressing your concerns and taking your story and values into account. Through the coaching relationship, you can build confidence experience improved intimacy, enhanced communication skills, and a deeper understanding of your own sexual well-being.
Services
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Virtual 1-on-1
Individual coaching sessions conducted online from the comfort of your own home or wherever feels best for you.
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IN-person 1-on-1
Live in the Pacific Northwest? We can meet in person in the Portland metro area. In person opens up the opportunity for enthusiastically consensual touch-based exercises.
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Workshops
I conduct in-person and virtual workshops from time to time. Follow me on social media to learn about upcoming workshops.
FAQs
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Excellent question. I completed a year-long course with the Somatica Institute, one of the most respected sex and intimacy coaching programs.
It’s important to choose your sex coach carefully as there are no consistent requirements for being a sex coach.If you have any questions, please schedule your free consultation call and we’ll talk!
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While I enjoy working with people from all backgrounds, my specialty is working with people socialized as women under evangelicalism and purity culture. I work with folks in all stages of relationship (single, dating, married, monogamous, nonmonogamous, etc. etc.) but I do not offer couples coaching at this time. Partners are welcome to join sessions on a case by case basis.
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Outside of my coaching practice, I am a board certified clinical chaplain. Chaplains have specialized training to provide spiritual and emotional support for people who are suffering. As a chaplain, I have a unique combination of skills to support you in your deconstruction and healing from purity culture. I have my own beliefs (after deconstructing evagelicalism, I now identify as agnostic) but I will never push you to believe anything. I’m here to support your beliefs as they are.
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Short answer: No.
Slightly longer answer: Fuck no.
Nuanced answer: I was at one time but I now conduct my spiritual care from the position of humanism and agnosticism with some witchy rituals and complete awe of nature thrown in. -
No. While coaching includes therapeutic elements, I am not a therapist. Occasionally, things may arise in our work that needs to be addressed with a mental health professional. If this happens, we’ll work together to find a therapist that will support the work we’ve done together.
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100 percent, emphatically, unequivocally, joyfully, YES. Part of my deconstruction and exploration has included exploring my own queerness and gender fluidity. I am honored to support others in the same.
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My goal is to make this work accessible, regardless of how end-stage capitalism is working for you. My current rates are $120 per 50-minute session but I have a sliding scale available. If you want to work with me but are concerned about cost, reach out.
Capitalism sucks.
Megan B.
“Aimee was so personable and professional. She made me feel comfortable about opening up, and she helped further discussion in a way that helped me see things in a new way.”
Erin B.